Why we alwayZ can only see bad side of a person??

People is a person... They are human being.... And human alwayz do mistake because we are not perfect... And the mistake.... we wun able to avoid it from occured. We do have a choice to correct it if we do realize it as early as......

But we alwayz tend, like, happy, exited?, to remember people's mistake, remember what people do wrong, remember what people wrong in taking a decision.. but..

WHY?? Why??

Why we do that? Are we happy for it? Are we LIKE to remember it?

Ask ourselves...!!!

Thanx God if we remember it for our rujukan, for our contoh teladan...

but...

what if we remember it just for 'to knock him or her down from
somewhere', to fire him or her back whenever we need to win ourselves from something.

What if remember it because we just jealous him or her from something...

Just remember, becoz of this bad attitude so many other bad thing will come out from us.... I can list down several of them if you want to know. But i think you aredy can think yourselves what will happen if we have this bad attitude.

Ex : of course our perception to him or her will goes to a bad perceptive. Whateva he or she done, will always be wrong for us(even he/she do the right one). Then we sure wun have good relation with him/her because we aredy have bad thinking to them. Wat if this guy or gurl bringing us some important thing which very needed by us and then we just let it,obey it becoz we aredy din like him/her.

Din it a big lost for us ?!

Perbuatan baik tidak akan menghapuskan perbuatan tidak baik.... Sin is a sin, of course... whateva good thing he/she done wun 'delete' the bad thing he/she done in past. But, din we think they deserve our apology? din we think they deserve 2nd chance? or din we ever remember, even Allah swt the creator of all the universe (including us), always open the pintu taubat for the human race. He always welcome every effort, every tears that cry becoz of penyesalan, every taubat from us... and He redy to apologize His hamba of course... and we? the weakest, small unpowerfull creatures in this world cant do that? perfect sgt ke kita nie xleh nak maafkan org laen? Bagus sgt ke kita?

Let us think about it deeply becoz realize it or not, yes, we tend to do this.....

Believe me, if we can handle this thing, we'll find that we are making more friend and more partner than before. Futhermore, it wud help us to kekalkan silaturahim between us which is very important for us who is a perantau yang mane kawan2 lah yang paling dekat dengan kita sehari-hari. we need kawan2 for everything. For joy or even for a cry....

----Love Our friend----